Happy Valentine’s Day this week. Valentine’s Day brings up many emotions along with several expectations and this week is no different. As we reach mid-week Mars and Pluto come together in an intense conjunction with each other and the emotional Moon, pushing the envelope to express deep feelings that have been kept inside for an exceptionally long time. The key to peace and tranquility on this day is to expect the unexpected along with the expected – because there are some emotional surprises in store for everyone. Each of these unexpected moments offers an opportunity for more positive choices that may require some sort of psychic extraction. There are many conflicts that people are dealing with right now and tolerance, particularly with those we love, is suggested as we maneuver ourselves through what seems to be an intense week.
There is an intense need to get needs met as other unforeseen circumstances pop up here and there. The series of events asks you to exercise tolerance regarding outcomes – especially those involved in romantic liaisons. Think of this week as a new opportunity to view love. Love requires patience and this may be the week to learn that specific lesson.
The first, of course, is about focusing on what you want in a relationship, whether business or personal. To do that successfully, be clear about what it is you truly value and need. This is the bottom line and the most important part of enduring and successful relationships. Ones values are the most important and most overlooked when presented with a momentary opportunity for some ecstasy and madness. But ecstasy and madness have no bearing on sustainable relationships – although those moments of ecstatic experiences do have a place – no question – and I am sure you, the reader, see the difference.
The second way, of course, is forcing yourself into a personal or professional relationship because of an intense desire to have what you want and those actions off have you ending up with zip! With Venus, Mar, Pluto and even the Moon coming together in mid-week, the intensity is rife with events putting you in positions of having to decide on situations or plans that are not quite ready but still in the ‘thinking’ stages. Choosing what one desires without looking at the full picture while listening to your inner voice – your intuition, is the key player in successful relationship outcomes that serve not only you but everyone else in your sphere.
The good news is that as the week ends, several of the planets move into air signs, offering a better opportunity to be objective regarding large decisions that have long-term potential. Your intuition is the key this week. If you are forcing your thoughts, ideas, or dreams on someone else without taking into consideration the ‘other’ then it is probably a ‘no-go’ at least for now.
You may find as you review a relationship opportunity that is over. Not necessarily. The structure may simply need a little tweaking – offering larger perspectives – and an unusual solution to the outcome.